The right hand is a symbol of strength, purpose and resourcefulness. The bride and groom hold each others right hand during the ceremony to signify that they depend on each other and are united in their marriage. The joining of hands symbolises the merging of two lives into one.

The Romans started the tradition of putting the ring on the third finger of the left hand. It was their belief that this finger is connected directly to the heart by the vein of love ( vena amoris )

It is customary for the groom to kiss the bride after the ceremony. This dates back to the time when a kiss on the cheek was the sign of a contract agreed and accepted.

It is an old custom for the bride to be given a horseshoe after the ceremony as a symbol of good luck. The Romans thought that the U shape protected them from evil. In mediaeval times it was believed that the horseshoe symbolised the moon the protector of women and a symbol of fertility. Others believed that a shiny new horseshoe had the power to defeat witches.

Always Listen to advice.

Whatever the occasion, wherever it is held others will have been there before you. Seek advice from the professionals. Whether it is for printing the invitations, organising the ceremony or the reception advice is easy to find.

Rely on others and don’t try to do everything yourself.

You don’t have to do everything in a traditional way. As long as the legalities are complied with and the religious tenets adhered to it is your choice how you celebrate your marriage.

This is a special day for both of you.

Enjoy it.

The hard work starts once the honeymoon’s over.